Working with Guided Meditation is a deep and powerful practice. Let's look at some ways you can get the most out of doing guided meditations.
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Guided Meditation Made Easy

My introduction to meditation came through doing a recorded guided meditation. At the time, I wasn’t really interested in meditation at all. I was interested in controlling the thick, sticky webs of anxiety that were hemming me in.

I was in my mid twenties and in early recovery from alcohol / drug addiction. The guided meditation helped. I soon started collecting recordings that had ‘stress relief’ in the title and listened to them almost daily for a few years, until I walked into a meditation group and began a more formal sitting meditation practice.

After a long break I’ve rediscovered guided meditations over the last four years or so. Last year I began training as an I-Rest Yoga Nidra teacher. Guided meditations are again a daily part of my life, and they work beautifully as a component of my meditation practice.

Guided meditations can provide a deep and powerful practice. This means it’s worth taking the time to set up your experience so you get the most possible benefit. So let’s look at some ways you can get the most out of doing guided meditations.

What is a guided meditation?

A guided meditation is a meditation you do with the help of a guide. The guide may be in the room with you giving verbal directions, or you might listen to instructions through an audio recording.

In this post we’ll be focusing on how to get the most out of a guided meditation recording.

The role of the guide is to support you in moving through a meditation process from start to finish in a safe and helpful way. Even in a regular meditation practice there is usually some form of guidance going on—meetings with a teacher, classes and discussions, readings.

The main difference is that on a guided meditation, the guidance is an in-the-moment affair. The guide is right there with you, in a sense, as you go through the experience.

Having a practice that combines guided and non-guided meditation sessions is like a form of spiritual cross-training. Both sides of the equation are enhanced.

Set an intention for your practice

As you are getting ready to do your guided meditation take some time to reflect on what you are hoping to get from your practice. Imagine that you have been using guided meditations for a while, what are some of the changes you imagine might happening for you as a result? Go over your answers and choose any that appeal to you. These can serve as seeds your starting intention.

Briefly imagine what it would be like if these desired results come through. What would it feel like? What subtle changes would you notice? Is there something different the people closest to you might notice if you these things started happening for you?

Once you know what you would like to get from your guided meditations, then your intention becomes clearer. Perhaps your intention is to create some kind of lasting change, to ‘feel calmer’ or ‘have more energy’. You might simply want an enjoyable experience.

Having an intention for your guided meditation practice can be helpful when it comes to choosing your meditation, and can help you keep motivated to do the guided meditation regularly.

If you journal, write your intention down. A line or two is plenty. What you are wanting is to bring that intention into the world and affirm it.

Writing down your intention is also useful as you can come back later and reflect on how it’s going. You can determine if anything has changed, or been clarified, about your intention. This allows you to refine your practice as you go.

Find a guided meditation recording that suits you.

I learned the importance of this the hard way after purchasing a few ‘unlistenable’ guided meditations.

Listening to a guided meditation is an act of trust. You are relaxing some of your defenses and agreeing to be led through a process,. To do this it’s important that you feel comfortable with both the process and the person leading it.

Always try to access a preview of any meditation you are interested in buying or downloading. That way you can listen to a few minutes of the audio and decide if it’s suitable for you.

What to listen for:

Is the guide’s voice soothing or comfortable? Is it annoying in some way? Is there any background music / background sounds? How do you feel when you hear them? Soothed? Inspired? Annoyed?

This is important, because you don’t want to be lying there rolling your eyes and arguing with the guide as you meditate. You want to be able to let go and be fully with the meditation. If a preview annoys you then it’s going to be difficult to give all your attention to the meditation.

Also check for periods of silence between the instructions. A skillful guide allows you some space to feel the meditation process. There should be a nice rhythm between verbal guidance and silent spaces for you to experience, and get the fruits of, that guidance.
What imagery or themes are covered? Imagery is often a key part of guided meditations. You can usually get a sense of what imagery might be in the meditation by reading the description, or from the cover art.

And finally, does it fit with the intention you set in the first step?

If you are wanting to feel less anxious, does this seem like the kind of meditation that will help you with that? If you wanted an enjoyable experience, does it seem like a meditation that will give you this experience?

Create A Safe and Nurturing Container For Yourself

You’ve thought about what you want from your guided meditation, you’ve chosen your recording, now it’s time to create a container for your experience.

Can you find a time and place where you won’t be disturbed. You might think of it as your own personal oasis tucked away in the middle of your day.

You want to dive into this experience fully.

Make your meditation space beautiful and nourishing for you. Eventually you will develop associations with the place you do your guided meditations. Over time, as you lie or sit down to do the meditation you are rewiring your neural networks and soon enough just the act of preparing for your session will shift you into a relaxed and receptive state.

Make yourself Comfortable

Now that you have your space set up, it’s time to get your body taken care of and ready to go.

Make yourself comfortable. Not too comfortable though, unless you want to go to sleep. Find a middle balance between too squishy and too hard. I like to lie on the floor in a darkened room with a yoga mat and a blanket over me.

Some other options might include: a comfortable chair,  eye pillow, bolsters, cushions, a folded up towel or thin pillow under head.

During The Meditation

The most important thing you can do during the meditation is to relax and enjoy the meditation as much as you can. This is not meant to be hard work, and you can’t really get it wrong.

Occasionally you will drift off during a meditation, that’s perfectly okay. It’s also okay to make it easier for you to stay focused and aware during the meditation process.

A Simple Trick To Avoid Drifting Off

Remember earlier, when I suggested you listen to a preview to see if the guide’s voice is a fit for you? If you did that then this tip will be much easier to follow.

As you listen to the voice, imagine it is an internal voice in your head. This helps to minimise thinking and distractions as you follow the meditation. It requires trust in the person doing the meditation, and that you are comfortable with the person’s voice/mannerisms etc.

Adopting the guide’s voice like this takes a layer of thinking out of the process. If you don’t feel comfortable doing this, then definitely don’t. But if you do, it can really deepen your experience.

Ease Back Into Your Day

We’ve looked at the preparation process before the meditation and how that helps. Just as important is the process of transitioning back into your day after the meditation.

Allow yourself some time to come out of the meditation. Guided mediations can be very powerful, you need to integrate the practice and feel fully prepared to move back into your day.

What helps:

Specific actions like having a few moments to stretch your body, or wash your face, maybe have a sip of water. Even packing away your things can serve as a useful transition ritual. Any kind of movement works.

I like to walk around a little, to ground myself by putting my awareness down into the feet and walking a little. Physical actions are great because they ground you back into the physical world.

I also find it helpful to say something out loud like: “I am now stepping back into my day.” Or “This meditation is now complete.”

It doesn’t take much to get you ready, but it is important to take one or two clear actions that say “I am moving onto the next thing.”

A Final Guided Meditation Tip

Just a final point if you are thinking of doing guided meditations as a regular thing.

It’s good to try a few different options and develop a feel for what you like, but once you have a couple of guided meditations that really work for you stick with them for a while.

A good guided meditation can be useful over a period of time, I like to spend a t least a month or so regularly doing a guided meditation before moving onto a new one.

If you jump around too much you miss out on this deepening aspect of the practice.  And remember, if you’re interested in meditation you probably have a desire to settle, to ground deeply, and investigate. Bring that sense of grounded-ness to your guided meditation practice and you will see the benefits over time.

I hope this is helpful to you. Do you do guided meditations? If so, maybe you could share some things that have helped you get the most out of your practice. Let us know in the comments, I’d love to hear from you!


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  • Reply Glenda Kruse April 8, 2016 at 12:52 pm

    I prefer to do guided meditation too. Thank you for your amazing tips, plan to use some 🙂

    • Reply Dave Rowley April 10, 2016 at 5:03 pm

      Thanks Glenda,

      Glad the post was useful for you!

  • Reply Reba Linker April 8, 2016 at 8:52 pm

    Wow, DAVE, I never considered many of these things, though I’ve used guided meditations for years and years. I was lucky in that they were all by my teacher, who I had weekly class with for 30 years, so I never had to make many of those decisions. Now that she has passed on, it is challenging to open up to another guide for such a personal, private thing. Things like intention, too, were always a given (spiritual growth and all the accompanying benefits it brings), so I never had to set an intention beyond what the meditation was leading us to. This gave me a fascinating look into another experience. Thank you, Reba

    • Reply Dave Rowley April 10, 2016 at 5:07 pm

      Hi Reba,

      How amazing to have the one teacher for 30 years! While I’m sure it must be challenging to open up to a new guide after all that time, it’s great to have such a solid experience to guide you as you look for another teacher.

  • Reply Beverley Golden April 8, 2016 at 10:06 pm

    Really wonderful tips based on your own experiences, Dave. Thank you. I have not been overly successful at meditating in this way and do find that things like gardening are very meditative for me. My daughter and I sign up for the 21-day Oprah and Deepak mediation challenges and although I start off with grand intentions, I do not generally make it through the 21-days. I recently read Dan Harris’ book “10% Happier” and found the style of meditation he embarked on quite fascinating. Mindfulness meditation, which is quite different to guided mediation. I found it a great read. The key is always to find what works of you and then to be consistent. I really appreciate all you shared here.

    • Reply Dave Rowley April 10, 2016 at 5:18 pm

      Hi Beverley,

      “The key is always to find what works of you and then to be consistent.” I so agree with that! There are many ways to become more present and aware in our lives, and we can all find something that suits our interests and temperaments. I love gardening (I’m still sore after hours of weeding yesterday afternoon) am definitely a fan of mindfulness meditation.

  • Reply Dana Leigh Lyons April 8, 2016 at 10:48 pm

    Such helpful guidance, Dave! I often recommend guided meditations to my clients, many of whom are very new to that sort of thing. This post will be wonderful to pass along as a support in the process.

    Personally, I’ve been listening to the dharma talks and guided mediations of Gil Fronsdal for probably 15 years. His talks have been a steady source of support and wisdom throughout life’s ebbs and flows. In times of struggle, I listen daily, and I feel so much gratitude for his presence and teachings across the years.

    • Reply Dave Rowley April 10, 2016 at 5:19 pm

      Thanks! Dana,

      I’ve heard you mention Gil before, he sounds great and I’m glad he’s been a help and source of support for you. I’m excited to head over and check out some of his talks and meditations.

  • Reply Psychic Nest April 8, 2016 at 11:02 pm

    Hi Dave,

    This is a really great article with excellent advice. There are people who don’t feel comfortable with the person who is guiding me during the meditation. This is pretty natural because while the body is relaxing, the defense mechanisms lower so as to get into a meditative state. What works for me, it might not work for someone else. So I suggest to stick with what feels good for you.

    In Psychic Nest we have fresh guided meditation material which can be found here for those who are interested. Don’t hesitate to give us feedback too. Thank you!


    • Reply Dave Rowley April 10, 2016 at 5:21 pm

      Hi Zaria,

      Yes, it’s very important that we check in with ourselves and make sure we feel comfortable with the guide. It’s so great that you do guided meditations too, I’ll have to give them a listen.

  • Reply Roslyn Tanner Evans April 9, 2016 at 1:20 pm

    My few forays into any form of meditation were always short lived. But then, I never read a guide on how to best do meditation or gotten any real guidance. One point you made that resonates the most for me was the part about the voice. some voices put me to sleep or bored me, some were not clear. I often sign up for meditative programs & drop out. When the time is right, the teacher will appear.

  • Reply Dave Rowley April 10, 2016 at 5:24 pm

    Hi Roslyn,

    Yes, the voice is such an important thing in guided meditations. And it’s not a surface thing, either. We can read so much into voices and it’s wise to listen to our own intuition there. It’s great that you’ve been exploring forms of meditation. And yes, when something is right for you it will all fall into place, I’m sure!

  • Reply Lu Ann @ The Cup of Life April 11, 2016 at 8:30 pm

    Love this post! I have tried guided meditations before, but I will definitely give it another shot after reading this. I usually practice tea meditation 🙂

    • Reply Dave Rowley April 14, 2016 at 8:59 pm

      Hi Lu Ann,
      I love tea meditation! We used to have someone come in once a month and do a tea ceremony with us at my old Zen centre. It was such a beautiful practice and I enjoyed learning the history of it.

  • Reply Joce April 11, 2016 at 10:37 pm

    Such great things to think about. I love saying out loud to yourself that you are getting back into your day. I always find myself feeling a little lost as I try to transition back to the everyday life. It’s so important to find a guided meditation that works for you…I have a handful that I like and was thinking I need to find more (which is hard for me as I am really picky) but I never thought about missing out if I hop around too much. Thank you!

    • Reply Dave Rowley April 14, 2016 at 9:14 pm

      Hi Joce,

      I agree, it’s really helpful to be conscious as we transition back into our day. It helps to prepare us and makes things so much easier. I’m glad you enjoyed the post!

  • Reply Kristen April 11, 2016 at 10:52 pm

    I do yoga, so this post is really relatable! I love the set up of your website. Thank you for the inspiration! 🙂

    • Reply Dave Rowley April 14, 2016 at 9:15 pm

      Hi Kristen,
      Oh, great! I love yoga too, Thanks for the kind words 🙂

  • Reply Rica@ Yoga Mat Monkey April 12, 2016 at 12:31 pm

    Love this! I have found that meditation helps me focus, which is something I’ve always struggled with. I’ve never explored guided meditation. I’ll have to give your suggestions a shot! Thanks. 🙂

    • Reply Dave Rowley April 14, 2016 at 9:16 pm

      Hi Rica,
      Meditation is so helpful in developing our ability to focus. Good luck with trying guided meditations, I hope the suggestions help!

  • Reply Ann April 12, 2016 at 9:27 pm

    I’ve been thinking a lot about meditation but I never plan for it. So I always walk away with the feeling that I am “not there yet”.

    • Reply Dave Rowley April 14, 2016 at 9:17 pm

      Hi Ann,
      I can relate to that. It’s a good idea to plan a little ahead and make it as easy (and enjoyable) as you can. Best wishes!

  • Reply Cecelia April 14, 2016 at 3:05 am

    Thank you for your suggestions. I have been meditating for about 6 years now. I go through stages and get tired of one and switch. Great tips.

    • Reply Dave Rowley April 14, 2016 at 9:18 pm

      Hi Cecelia,

      6 years is great, that’s a well established practice!

  • Reply Andrea April 14, 2016 at 11:35 pm

    I generally prefer “solo” meditation to guided but have recently started looking for a yoga nidra recording so I can learn. The first one I tried was “OK” but your suggestions will help me find one that really suits me. Thanks for an informative post.

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